Tuesday, May 19, 2015

isolation

I've learned and observed a few things about isolation.
  • it is hardly ever helpful
  • it is not the same as solitude
  • it makes us incredibly vulnerable 

  • it is the easy path initially, but the results are a thousand times harder than had we lived in community
  • inside it, our perspectives become ridiculously skewed
  • it is often the choice when there is pain or the need to be perfect
  • it is the thing we want most when we're in pain
  • it is the thing we need least when we're in pain
  • it is the opposite of unity and fellowship
  • it is a prideful tactic: thinking we can go it alone, when our original design demands we live in community
  • it is disobedience (sin?) to how God called us to live
  • it is incredibly hard to cultivate community: vulnerability and humility are requirements
  • true community is like a warm fireplace in a big log cabin after a long day out in the cold

3 comments:

Gary said...

Well said, and utterly true on every point and particular....

Gwendolyn1946 said...

I feel like Jess could stand to read this with her heart open and understand that we, her family, are an integral part of that community..

Gwendolyn1946 said...

I feel like Jess could stand to read this with her heart open and understand that we, her family, are an integral part of that community..